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The Power of

Balanced Masculinity:

Challenging Your Shadow

When anger becomes your default… when you shut down instead of speak up… when porn, control, or emotional distance start replacing real connection — that’s not just "how men are." Those are warning signs.

You might think you’re holding it together, but if your relationship is strained, your partner feels unseen, or you're constantly triggered by emotion — something deeper is at play.

The Power of Balanced Masculinity is about getting to the root — the buried stuff you were taught to ignore. Through shadow work, I help you dive deep into these unconscious patterns, allowing you to confront the parts of yourself that you've been hiding or rejecting. It’s not about shaming or blaming; it’s about uncovering the root causes of behaviors you may not be aware are hurting you and those around you; learning to replace them with healthier, more authentic ways of being — that's the Power of Balanced Masculinity.

What You Need

  • Commitment to Change: This requires consistent work, but it will ultimately lead to a more fulfilling, authentic life.

  • Honesty & Accountability: Qualities that help empower you to confront uncomfortable truths, take responsibility for your actions, and create lasting change in your relationships and life.

  • Willingness to Unlearn: You must be open to questioning the beliefs and behaviors you were taught about manhood, power, and control—and be ready to redefine them for yourself.

  • Emotional Courage: The strength to face what you’ve buried, including shame, guilt, vulnerability, and fear, without running from it or numbing it.

  • Respect for the Process: Healing isn’t linear. You’ll need patience, curiosity, and the humility to show up even when it’s uncomfortable or uncertain.

    Let's face this together.

What's Included

  • 30 Min Consultation: Align your intentions and set a powerful foundation for your transformation after your enrollment to get started.

  • 1-Month of 1:1 Shadow Work Coaching with LVF

  • Next day check-ins

  • New Perspectives that will shift your thinking, beliefs, and bring clarity

  • Accountability for releasing habits & behaviors that don't serve you

  • Weekly Bedtime Journaling Prompts based on monthly themes

  • The 1-Month Shadow Work Journal & Workbook by LVF

  • Ongoing Messaging Support as you need it

  • BONUS!
    LVF.LVX's upcoming book, So, I Married My Shadow (E-book + Signed Paperback)

What You’ll Gain

  • Freedom from Addictive Behaviors: Freedom comes from not needing what’s been controlling you, and in that space, addictive patterns fade as you face what you've been avoiding with strength, not shame.

  • Healthier Relationships: It’s not about being more emotional—it’s about feeling less exhausted.

  • True Emotional Intimacy: Real connection doesn’t demand more from you—it gives you more room to fully be yourself.

  • Empowerment Through Authenticity: You don’t have to choose between connection and freedom—authenticity gives you both.

  • Self-Awareness: The willingness to face uncomfortable truths about your behaviors and thinking patterns allow you to gain healthier relationships, freedom from projection, and upgraded leadership.

  • How to Embrace Vulnerability: Experience a sense of relief knowing that you no longer have to hide behind walls to protect yourself.

Was $2500. Now Only $2,222
Who this is for

  • Men who’ve cheated, avoided commitment, or treated relationships as a game—and genuinely want to change.

  • Men who have been called out for toxic behaviors and are beginning to see the patterns for themselves.

  • Men who struggle to see women beyond objectification and are ready to build real, lasting connection.

  • Men who feel stuck in cycles of porn addiction and are starting to recognize its impact on their intimacy and self-worth.

  • Men who are willing to confront the root causes of their behavior and rewrite their story from a place of integrity and self-awareness.

  • Men who are ready to hear the truth and are committed to doing the inner work.

What it is
1-Month Shadow Work Coaching
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Embodying Assertive Masculinity:

Stop Apologizing,

Start Leading

For many men, the “Nice Guy” act has become a survival strategy. It’s about being the gentleman who always says yes, the guy who goes out of his way to please others, and the “hero” who tries to fix everything—even when it costs you your own needs, desires, and authenticity. Beneath that mask, there’s often a deep fear of rejection, a hunger for validation, and blurred emotional boundaries that can lead to frustration, resentment, and feeling unfulfilled in relationships.

This work is about rediscovering your authentic power and gaining the confidence to show up fully in your relationships, career, and life. You’ll learn to stop seeking validation from others, take control of your emotional boundaries, and build the kind of respect-filled, fulfilling relationships you’ve always wanted.

Ready to stop playing small and start leading with your true self? Apply now to begin your transformation.

What it Takes:

  • Radical Self-Honesty: The courage to confront the ways you’ve been people-pleasing or hiding behind the “nice guy” mask.

  • Vulnerability: The willingness to let go of the fear of rejection and allow yourself to express your true feelings, desires, and needs.

  • Commitment to Authenticity: Understanding that showing up as your true self is the key to healthy, balanced relationships—not acting out of obligation or seeking external validation.

What's Included:

  • 30 Min Consultation: Align your intentions and set a powerful foundation for your transformation after your enrollment to get started.

  • 1-Month of 1:1 Shadow Work Coaching with LVF

  • Next day check-ins

  • Weekly Bedtime Journaling Prompts based on monthly themes

  • A Custom 1-Month Shadow Work Journal & Workbook by LVF

  • Ongoing Messaging Support as you need it

  • BONUS!
    LVF.LVX's upcoming book, So, I Married My Shadow (E-book + Signed Paperback)

What You’ll Gain:

  • Emotional Freedom: Let go of the need to seek validation through rescuing or constantly pleasing others and learn to prioritize your own well-being.

  • Healthier, Equal Relationships: Cultivate relationships where respect is mutual, not based on constant giving without receiving.

  • Increased Confidence and Self-Worth: Release the fear of rejection and gain the ability to be fully yourself, knowing you are worthy of love and respect just as you are.

  • Stronger Boundaries: Learn to set clear, healthy boundaries, so you no longer sacrifice your own needs or identity to make others happy.

Was $2500. Now Only $2,222
Who this is for
  • Men who associate masculinity with shame, aggression, or toxicity—and have rejected or suppressed that side of themselves.

  • Men who struggle to say “no” and end up resentful or drained.

  • Men who avoid confrontation and lose themselves trying to keep the peace.

  • Men who get friend-zoned way too often and don’t understand why.

  • Men who recognize their own passive-aggressive reactions to rejection and want to change that pattern.

  • Men who feel like emotional doormats or punching bags in their relationships and friendships.

  • Men who feel unseen, undervalued, or unappreciated—no matter how much they give.

  • Men who are ready to reclaim their boundaries, step into their healthy masculine, and embrace their whole selves.

  • Men who feel like they’ve tried everything and are finally ready to hear the unfiltered truth.

Releasing the “Nice Guy” act is about embracing your full self—your desires, boundaries, and strengths. It’s about stepping out of the shadow of people-pleasing and into the light of authenticity and self-respect. Together, we can break free from these patterns and create a life of deeper connection, true confidence, and genuine love.

What it is
1-Month Shadow Work Coaching
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Releasing Toxic Masculinity

If toxic masculinity shows up in your marriage, your relationships, how you respond to women in the workplace, I can help you. Behaviors like avoiding vulnerability, objectifying women, hiding behind a mask, and falling into cycles like porn addiction are all indicators of a deeper, underlying truth. These behaviors aren’t just habits—they’re deeply ingrained coping mechanisms that are often rooted in childhood experiences, societal pressures, and past trauma.

Through shadow work, I help men dive deep into these unconscious patterns, allowing them to confront the parts of themselves they’ve been hiding or rejecting. It’s not about shaming or blaming; it’s about uncovering the root causes of toxic behaviors and learning to replace them with healthier, more authentic ways of being.

What's Included:

  • 30 Min Consultation: Align your intentions and set a powerful foundation for your transformation after your enrollment to get started.

  • 1-Month of 1:1 Shadow Work Coaching with LVF

  • Next day check-ins

  • Weekly Bedtime Journaling Prompts based on monthly themes

  • The 1-Month Shadow Work Journal & Workbook by LVF

  • Ongoing Messaging Support as you need it

  • BONUS!
    LVF.LVX's upcoming book, So, I Married My Shadow (E-book + Signed Paperback)

Was $2500. Now Only $2,222
Who this is for
  • Men who are ready to hear the truth without defensiveness and are committed to doing the inner work.

  • Men who have been called out for toxic behaviors and are beginning to see the patterns for themselves.

  • Men who struggle to see women beyond objectification and are ready to build real, lasting connection.

  • Men who feel stuck in cycles of porn addiction and are starting to recognize its impact on their intimacy and self-worth.

  • Men who’ve cheated, avoided commitment, or treated relationships as a game—and genuinely want to change.

  • Men who are willing to confront the root causes of their behavior and rewrite their story from a place of integrity and self-awareness.

What it is
1-Month Journey

What You Need:

  • Commitment to Change: Understanding that releasing toxic masculinity requires consistent work, but it will ultimately lead to a more fulfilling, authentic life.

  • Honesty & Accountability: Qualities that help empower you to confront uncomfortable truths, take responsibility for your actions, and create lasting change in your relationships and life.

  • Willingness to Unlearn: You must be open to questioning the beliefs and behaviors you were taught about manhood, power, and control—and be ready to redefine them for yourself.

  • Emotional Courage: The strength to face what you’ve buried, including shame, guilt, vulnerability, and fear, without running from it or numbing it.

  • Respect for the Process: Healing isn’t linear. You’ll need patience, curiosity, and the humility to show up even when it’s uncomfortable or uncertain.

What You’ll Gain:

  • Freedom from Addictive Behaviors: Overcome cycles like porn addiction or numbing distractions that prevent you from fully living by understanding the source of the addiction and creating new neural pathways.

  • Healthier Relationships: Learn to see women as equals, break free from objectification, and build deeper emotional connections.

  • True Emotional Intimacy: Break the pattern of avoiding vulnerability and learn to connect authentically with yourself and others.

  • Empowerment Through Authenticity: Discover the strength in being your true, vulnerable, and compassionate self.

  • Self-Awareness: The willingness to face uncomfortable truths about your behaviors and thinking patterns.

  • How to Embrace Vulnerability: Breaking through the walls of avoidance and connecting to your deeper emotions—without shame.

Let's face this together.

Release the 'Nice Guy' Mask

1-Month Journey
Who this is for
What it is
Was $2500. Now Only $2,222
  • Men who associate masculinity with shame, aggression, or toxicity—and have rejected or suppressed that side of themselves

  • Men who feel like they’ve tried everything and are finally ready to hear the unfiltered truth

  • Men who struggle to say “no” and end up resentful or drained

  • Men who avoid confrontation and lose themselves trying to keep the peace

  • Men who get friend-zoned way too often and don’t understand why

  • Men who recognize their own passive-aggressive reactions to rejection and want to change that pattern

  • Men who feel like emotional doormats or punching bags in their relationships and friendships

  • Men who feel unseen, undervalued, or unappreciated—no matter how much they give

  • Men who are ready to reclaim their boundaries, step into their healthy masculine, and embrace their whole selves

For many men, the "Nice Guy" act is a survival strategy. It’s about being the perfect gentleman, constantly people-pleasing, and showing up as the “white knight” to rescue others—often at the expense of their own needs, desires, and authenticity. Underneath this facade, there’s often a deep fear of rejection, a need for validation, and a lack of emotional boundaries that can lead to frustration, resentment, and unfulfilled relationships.

Through LVF's 2-month shadow work program, I help men dive deep into these unconscious patterns and uncover the root causes of the “Nice Guy” behaviors—whether they stem from childhood conditioning, past trauma, or a desire to be accepted. Releasing the "Nice Guy" act isn’t about being less kind or empathetic—it’s about becoming authentic, setting healthy boundaries, and breaking free from the need to constantly prove yourself in relationships.

What it Takes:

  • Radical Self-Honesty: The courage to confront the ways you’ve been people-pleasing or hiding behind the “nice guy” mask.

  • Vulnerability: The willingness to let go of the fear of rejection and allow yourself to express your true feelings, desires, and needs.

  • Commitment to Authenticity: Understanding that showing up as your true self is the key to healthy, balanced relationships—not acting out of obligation or seeking external validation.

What's Included:

  • 30 Min Consultation: Align your intentions and set a powerful foundation for your transformation after your enrollment to get started.

  • 1-Month of 1:1 Shadow Work Coaching with LVF

  • Next day check-ins

  • Weekly Bedtime Journaling Prompts based on monthly themes

  • A Custom 1-Month Shadow Work Journal & Workbook by LVF

  • Ongoing Messaging Support as you need it

  • BONUS!
    LVF.LVX's upcoming book, So, I Married My Shadow (E-book + Signed Paperback)

What You’ll Gain:

  • Emotional Freedom: Let go of the need to seek validation through rescuing or constantly pleasing others and learn to prioritize your own well-being.

  • Healthier, Equal Relationships: Break the pattern of trying to “save” others and instead build mutually supportive relationships based on authenticity and respect.

  • Increased Confidence and Self-Worth: Release the fear of rejection and gain the ability to be fully yourself, knowing you are worthy of love and respect just as you are.

  • Stronger Boundaries: Learn to set clear, healthy boundaries, so you no longer sacrifice your own needs or identity to make others happy.

Let's conquer this together.

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Or book your Single 1:1 Shadow Work 60 Min Session

My 1:1 Coaching services are not for the faint of heart as it can be extremely triggering. It is not for those who are afraid of confronting the buried, hidden, suppressed, and darker truths we each possess. The process requires commitment, courage, vulnerability, and a willingness to explore the hidden parts of yourself that may be uncomfortable or challenging to face. If you are ready to embrace deep self-reflection and take responsibility for your personal growth, this journey can be profoundly transformative. However, if you are not yet prepared to confront the truths within, this service may not be the right fit for you at this time. LVF offers a 1 cent 30 Minute Consultation to see if this is the right fit for you. All services are fully refundable within 7 days of purchase.

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